Loss of libido sex drive is a common problem affecting up to one in five men — and even more women — at some point in their life. It's often linked to professional and personal stress, or important life-changing events such as pregnancy, childbirth or breastfeeding. However, an unexpected loss of libido — especially when it lasts for a long time or keeps returning — can also indicate an underlying personal, medical or lifestyle problem, which can be upsetting to both partners in a relationship. If you're concerned about your libido, especially if your diminished sex drive distresses you or affects your relationship, make an appointment to see your GP to discuss any underlying causes and possible medical or psychological treatments.
But when a woman has a low libido or low sexual desire and is bothered by this lack of interest in sex, she may have a condition called hypoactive sexual desire disorder HSDD. This distress is an important component. After all, some women with what is considered a low libido may not have any distress or problems with a partner as a result. HSDD is treatable and can be manageable, so the first step if you are concerned about a lack of interest in sex is to talk to a healthcare provider to see what options are available.
Women's sexual desires naturally fluctuate over the years. Highs and lows commonly coincide with the beginning or end of a relationship or with major life changes, such as pregnancy, menopause or illness. Some medications used for mood disorders also can cause low sex drive in women.