Kids learn a lot throughout their time at school : who invented lightbulbs, for instance, or fun rhymes about Henry VIII beheading his wives. What they don't learn are lessons that are actually useful in adult life, like how to file taxes, make an aubergine curry or go down on someone — if they're that way inclined. Straight cis men, especially, are taught by mainstream pop culture that the simple act of eating someone out is good enough: a few flicks of the tongue and… bam , a mind-blowing orgasm and even if not, they should at least be grateful that you're trying. But as anyone with a vulva knows, there is a difference between someone going down good and someone going down not so good the same goes for dicks, I'm sure, but that's a separate piece entirely.
How to eat someone out - or lick someone out - really well
10 Things To Know About Going Down On A Woman, According To Queer Women | HuffPost Life
I remember the first time I received head. I was about 17, and had a teenage boyfriend who exclusively attended Pornhub school for sex I mean, whomst among us, right? You can learn a lot about a person when their head is between your thighs. How much they love the taste of your lips, how much they care about your pleasure, what their priorities are. It was inconsistent, aimless licking like a dog with tongue paralysis. I kept attempting, but I always felt like I was forcing whoever I was with to try it, just so I could squirm, and not in a good way.
10 Things To Know About Going Down On A Woman, According To Queer Women
Fact: you can never not improve your oral sex skills , especially when it comes to cunnilingus. That is, if cunnilingus is even being put on the table or the bed, the kitchen counter, etc. Which is why HelloGiggles reached out to some sexperts for their insight and advice on going down.
Eating pussy, licking out, going down on someone, eating someone out, whatever you want to call oral sex , it can be so pleasurable for women and people with vaginas. Cunnilingus puts the focus on the clitoris, which is the source of great pleasure much more so than the actual vagina through penetration. So if you've ever wondered how to lick someone out really, really, well, here's a step-by-step eating pussy guide courtesy of the sex blog How To Make Me Come.