Instead of your man being on top, you are. Some women love these positions while others prefer the variety of positions from our sex positions guide with illustrations. To set up the woman on top position, your man needs to lie down on his back as if he was performing the Asian Cowgirl or the Side Saddle positions. You then need to straddle him as you would when performing the Cowgirl position.

We know you want to please your lady and they sure as hell want you to do it, too. And that can get a little, well boring. Believe us: Both you—and she—will know that they work. According to sex experts, women get the most pleasure out of basic missionary sex. In this position, the man is either lying down or in a sitting position, and the female straddles him backwards — facing his feet instead of his face. Doggie style is a great position for the woman because it allows her to have optimal control.

We were halfway through a 'quiet night in' that was anything but quiet where I'd been challenged to get through all of the best woman on top sex positions in one night. I'll be honest, the Erotic Accordion below for reference had me stumped. But as a long-term sex blogger and fan of all things kinky, I'm no more going to give up in the face of a sexual challenge than a banker would turn down a bonus. I'm glad we kept at it, and I feel a bit guilty that I'd been rude about this one to begin with, because when we got the angle just right, this position gave a deep penetration and achingly hot sensation. I felt powerful, in control, and about as dominant as I get without brandishing a whip.

Sometimes you want to have sex standing up. Other times you want to lie back and let your partner work their magic. On other occasions, you crave a kinky position , or one that lets your partner go really really deep. When those dominant feels strike, there's only one course of action to take: Get on top. A woman-on-top sex position will let you dictate the depth and angle of penetration, as well as the speed.